16th Sunday after Pentecost at Epiphany on September 16, 2007

Grace, mercy and peace to you through Jesus Christ who calls you to be his faithful disciples. Amen.

Luke 14:25-33 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters-- yes, even his own life-- he cannot be my disciple. 27 And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. 28 "Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it? 29 For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, 30 saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.' 31 "Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Will he not first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? 32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.

Count the cost of your discipleship

What is your impression of Jesus? I believe that today it is fashionable to think of Jesus as being gentle, kind, and mild-mannered. Because we think of Him that way, and often only in that way, He can seem pretty one-dimensional. That's why many young people have labeled Jesus as being “just a little bit boring.” Too often we forget that Jesus had another side, a deeper side, a side that is sometimes difficult for many of us to understand.

If you listen to Jesus' words, really listen to what He's saying, you may find yourself troubled. An example of this is found in Luke 14, where we are told that large, adoring crowds were following Jesus. Listen carefully to what Jesus said to them, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters — yes, even his own life — he cannot be my disciple. Anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. Any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.”

Did you hear that? Jesus said you cannot be His disciple if you don't hate your parents, siblings and even your own children. Now, I may dislike my sister because she is the women’s basketball coach at the University of Michigan , but that doesn’t mean I hate her. Hatred. What kind of talk is that? Parents used to wash their children's mouths out with soap if they talked like that. Those words don't sound like something that would come out of the mouth of the Prince of Peace. Those words seem out of character for the Savior. Isn't this the same Jesus that told us to love our enemies, to do good to those who persecute us, and to love our neighbors as ourselves? Something seems to be wrong here. Is Jesus really telling us to hate those who normally would be closest to us?

"If anyone comes after me and does not hate ..." "Hate" is not primarily a feeling word in the Aramaic language, the language Jesus spoke. It is primarily a priority word. It means to abandon or to leave aside; the way a sailor needs to abandon a sinking ship or the way a general needs to leave aside distracting things to win his battle. Whatever contradicts or prevents discipleship is to be hated, not just disliked or disapproved. That holds true even if the immediate family is involved. A person may love his mother as his mother, yet at the same time hate his mother as one who stands in the way of his discipleship.

I know many Christians hearing Jesus words try to minimize them, try to change them, even ignore them. They say, “Jesus just wanted the folks in the crowd to know that following Him would mean they would have to make a commitment. But I don’t think Jesus really meant all that stuff about hating people.” That's what some say.

Others feel very uncomfortable with Jesus' words. They're uncomfortable because they prefer to think of God as a Divine ATM machine. You punch in your code with a personal prayer, tell God what you want, the connection is made, and you get your heart's desire. Folks, it's foolish to believe that the Creator of the Universe is our Valet, our Butler , our Divine Concierge, who has nothing better to do than comply with our demands, run our errands, and fulfill our whims and wishes. Yes, Jesus is our Savior, our sacrifice, our suffering Servant, but He is not a heavenly lackey. God listens to the petitions of His people, but He doesn't take orders. For goodness sake, He's God, and we're not!

A lot of people might not like it, but Jesus was serious when He said, “If you don't give up everything, you cannot be my disciple.” The disciples thought He was serious. They left their boats, their places of business, their families, and they followed Jesus. Two thousand years of martyrs have thought Jesus was serious. History has two millennia filled with Christian parents who were betrayed by their children; 20 centuries of Christian children who were exiled from community, family, and friends because they loved the Christ. Are we really ready to tell them that Jesus was just exaggerating and that they didn't have to go through all that? Jesus knew what He was saying. Jesus meant what He was saying. He meant every word that He spoke to the crowd that day.

You know He was serious, and quite frankly, you don't like it, do you? Some of you hearing Christ's criterion for discipleship, say, “That's wrong. I can't follow anybody who tells me I'm supposed to hate. I might be lonely; I might feel lost; it will be expensive; it will be difficult; it may put my life in danger.”

Jesus is telling us to count the cost of our discipleship to Him. Sadly, we are often comfortable with Jesus as long as we don’t have to sign our name on the dotted line; as long as we can waffle on keeping the commandments; as long as we aren’t expected to sacrifice, surrender or show any kind of stewardship.

A mountaineer was noted for his marksmanship. When asked about his expertise, he said that it was rather simple: "I just fire a round into a large tree and then draw a bulls-eye around it." Most of us want our discipleship to come so easily and so cheaply. We like “Scattershot Christianity.”  We really don’t appreciate Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who was a Lutheran in Nazi Germany, telling us, "When Christ calls a man, he calls him to come and die."

Count the cost of being Christ’s disciple. Unless you do this you will be like the builder who can’t finish his tower or like the king who can’t win the war. When the going gets tough, allegiance to Jesus will grow cold. Half-hearted commitment won’t do. Building the tower or winning the war are grand monuments of commitment to the Lord. Indifferent, unenthusiastic, compromising discipleship fails to glorify God.

The mark of a great leader is the demands he makes upon his followers. The Italian freedom fighter Garibaldi offered his men only hunger and death to free Italy . Winston Churchill told the English people that he had nothing to offer them but "blood, sweat, toil, and tears" in their fight against England ’s enemies. Jesus demanded that his followers carry a cross – a sign of death.

Church tradition says that Andrew died on a cross; Simon was crucified; Bartholomew was flayed alive; James, son of Zebedee, was beheaded; James, son of Alphaeus, was beaten to death; Thomas was run through with a lance; Matthias was stoned and then beheaded; Matthew was slain by the sword; Peter was crucified upside down; Thaddeus was shot to death with arrows; and Philip was hanged.

The demands that Jesus makes upon those who follow him are extreme. Christianity is not a Sunday morning religion. It is a hungering after God to the point of death if need be. It shakes our foundations, topples our priorities, pits us against friend and family, and makes us strangers in this world. We sing, "What a Friend We Have in Jesus." But, we must come to see that on many occasions he is not our friend but an adversary to our sinful nature. Christ is an enemy to the world around us.

Jesus wants you to count the cost of following Him. Be serious and committed. That means giving up a Packer game for a fellowship event or evangelism effort. It means giving an extra hour of your time for Bible Class. It means budgeting the money in your home better so you can have more to give to God’s kingdom work. It means giving the same kind of care and attention to God’s house of worship that you give to your house – regular church cleaning, painting walls, laying carpeting, spending money, replacing old, out-of-date, or broken church and school items with the kind of new items you put into your own home. It means coming to worship every Sunday, not just when it is convenient. It means telling your employer you’ll be late for work or you’re not coming in on a Sunday morning or Wednesday night because you have a prior commitment to Christ’s church.

God is allowing us to do amazing things at Epiphany and WLS. We can no longer be part-time disciples, putting down our cross when it is too heavy, and refraining from following when it costs too much. Imagine what God could accomplish with us if we were full-time disciples, carrying our cross, counting the cost and remaining committed and consistent. We have to get out of our comfort zone. If we want the church to grow, absent members to return, neighbors to attend, and God’s kingdom to increase, we have to do the work. We cannot sit idle. Carry means work. It won’t happen unless you are working, struggling, sweating, giving, and sacrificing for your Lord. Martin Luther said it well: “A religion that gives nothing, costs nothing, and suffers nothing, is worth nothing.”

Jesus knew that following Him would always cost His followers. Eleven of the men who were closest to Him would have to make a decision; share the Savior with the world or stay put. He was telling them in no uncertain terms, their job was, by the Spirit's power, to leave their old lives behind and share the story of salvation with a sinful world. Ten of those disciples who heard Him that day, would be martyred – some in the most terrible of ways.

They would not be the last. Even today, throughout the world, Christ's blood-bought brothers and sisters are being persecuted, prosecuted and murdered. And if by God's grace, you are not being tortured or trapped, raped or robbed because you follow the Savior, that hardly means you will have a life of ease. When the Holy Spirit brings you to faith in Jesus, it is almost a certainty that you will, from that moment on, have some choices. A promotion may be within your grasp. All it will take is to plant a little lie here or there, a little lie and a denial of your discipleship. Perhaps you think you've finally discovered true love. Sadly, part of the formula for living happily ever after is you must deny your discipleship. You might think that you've found the formula for acceptance by your peers. Nothing stands in your way of being one of the group – except that to be received by them, you must deny your discipleship. Jesus wanted everybody to know that following Him has a price.

The cost for us following Jesus is nothing compared to what our salvation cost Him. Jesus, the perfect Son of God, was born in a stable. There was no room for Him anywhere else. Nobody was ready to move over; nobody ready to say, “Here, take my room.” Then, as a Baby, somebody tried to kill Him. That was for you. As He grew, He lived a perfect life. He had to live a perfect life. If He had sinned, He would have failed. “No big deal,” you think. Do you know how many times leading a perfect life meant Jesus would have had to stop playing with some friends; how many times Jesus couldn't join in gossiping or complaining? Jesus was the Son of God, but His must have been a lonely life. That loneliness was for you.

When Jesus began His ministry, in compassion He healed many who were sick. Soon, healing the sick was all some wanted Him to do. He fed the hungry, and soon feeding the hungry was all some wanted Him to do. When He refused to put on morning, afternoon, and evening matinees, the crowds became angry, many left. This desertion He endured for you. When He went back to His hometown, they tried to kill Him. His family tried to bring Him home because they thought He was crazy. This was for you. The religious leaders tried to trick Him, tried to murder Him.

Jesus, when He prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane , had your sins given to Him. Jesus is the all-powerful Son of God, but those sins, yours and mine and the world's, dropped Him with His face into the ground. For you. He was betrayed by a friend. He was arrested. Lies were told about Him. He didn't argue. He kept silent for you. They spit in His face. They beat Him. He didn't fight. They whipped Him, He didn't try to escape. They condemned Him, He carried a cross. For you. They pounded nails through His hands and His feet. He died for you, for all of us. He rose so we would never die. All of this was for you.

Understand that Jesus does not demand that you become His disciple. On the contrary, He who only gave, warns what might happen if you do. Still, how can you not follow Him? How can you not say, “My Lord and my God?” How can you not say, “Lord, I believe, help my unbelief?” How can you not say, “Lord, be merciful to me a sinner?” Count the cost. Be a committed, enthusiastic, faithful disciple of Christ. Be the disciple of Him who gave up everything, so you might have everything. Amen.